Where have you been?

Haven't seen some of my friends for quite a long time, probably cos we hang out with with people or simply the bonds between us are getting weaker and weaker....

I have been thinking about it quite alot these days? Haven't I tried hard enough to maintain / retain the relationships or simply people don't want to get in touch with me at some points, I really have no idea....

Sometimes, I just wonder whether the technology pull us farer or it will happen like that when people grows older and older, people start to have a boarder network, a more extensive network, so less time to spend with the old friends.... I don't know....

Or when we grow older, we see different things, and it's no longer the same as the old day, or maybe we have different focuses or dreams or targets or aims, whatsoever....

Somehow, I do get confused... seem things are changing and it will never be the same, it will never be the same old person we knew long time ago...

But if people only like the "old" you, is it a bit too "superficial", and if we are like the same old guy all the time, does it mean we never improve or what?

Sigh.... I really have no idea....